We all have struggled at one point or another with women; Are women some sort of mystery that can never be solved? Or do we men have no idea how to deal with them? I know you are anxious to know how to make your partner the happiest, so let's get started:
1. Love her:
Well, the first thing you need to make sure of is your genuine love towards her. And it is not a coincidence that love came first, without the purity of your love for this particular woman everything else won't work. Women are sensitive creatures that should be reminded of things that guys consider small on a daily basis; I mean you have to remind her every once and a while of how much you love her and why did you choose her over anyone else, these words are simple yet effective. As Pamela Davis said: 'Every woman deserves a man who loves and respects her and every man deserves a woman who appreciate his efforts'.
Start making small changes towards her; Hold her hand while walking into a restaurant, express to her that you need her and value her or surprise her from time-to-time with a card or flowers or a little gift; These are just few examples on how easy it is to make your partner happy.
2. Understand the nature of women:
''Men are from Mars and women are from Venus''; This shows just how different the two genders are. Women are extremely complex and complicated creatures where Men are a simple-minded creature; The way women think for example is interesting; Women tend to think in a collective or global method therefore women are prone to become overwhelmed with complexities that exist or may exist, while men tend to focus on one task at a time.
But most importantly, Women have three physiological functions that are completely absent in Men; Menstruation, Pregnancy and Lactation. Each of these mechanisms influence behavior and feelings significantly; Try to understand these mechanisms and be extra nice when your partner is going through either one of them; Listen to what she says and try to give her some rest while you handle her duties.
3. Make her laugh:
Ask any women what she looks for in a man and ''someone who can make me laugh until my ribs hurt'' is usually one of the first things they say. A lot of guys can be good looking, charming, interesting or intelligent but not everyone has the sense of humor; And I know you're not the funniest guy in the world but that does not mean you cannot make her laugh; You don't have to use the filthiest joke on the planet or racist jokes, try to be a little awkward, share a funny family tale and be original; don't just memorize a line from Friends or a famous comedian. But my absolute favorite method is to make her laugh at yourself; If you spilled some coke on yourself during the movie just laugh it off, women love guys who don't take everything seriously. In the end, everyone loves to laugh :-).
4. Be patient:
Women can be difficult to handle sometimes, Women are greatly affected by hormone fluctuations from PMS to Menopause; And those changes can affect her mood, her weight, her food cravings or even her desire for sexual intercourse; Medically speaking, Women may undergo cramps, diarrhea, anxiety, depression or headaches before menstruation and all of those are difficult to tolerate. Therefore, patience is an extremely important feature in Men, whether your partner is angry at you or refusing sexual activities, understand that she is under the influence of hormones that are giving her a really awful time; Try to support her instead of yelling at her and think of every single word you say before saying it.
Be patient when she is late, don't make her feel guilty especially if the conversation started with 'Sorry' and let her win the argument; One day the tables could be turned and she might let you win the argument.
5. Make her feel special:
You don't have to take her to the fanciest restaurant in town or buy her the most expensive ring in the world to make your lady feel special; Compliment her in an appropriate way; Don't just tell her ''you're hot'', try to be original, say something like ''When I look at you, I know what it's like to feel comfortable and safe around someone''.
Show her that you care; Leave a random note saying ''I love how beautiful you look today'' in her car or kiss her on the cheeks out of nowhere, ask her a lot of questions to show your interest in her; Ask about her hobbies, favorite movies..etc.
Make a step forward; Put your jacket on her shoulders when it's cold, make her laugh when she is feeling down instead of standing there saying 'I'm sorry', Find out what's her favorite flower is and bring her a bouquet in your way home, take a lot of pictures together, Respect her and get to know her friends and don't be embarrassed to hold her hand in public.
6. Communicate:
There's no shame in asking your partner about what she thinks of getting a new car for example; Always ask about her point of view before making a decision even though it wasn't her area of expertise. You are sending her a message that you really care about what she thinks and appreciate her opinion in your decisions.
Communication matters more than you think; She might be hiding something but she won't tell because you simply don't ask about what's wrong. Allow her space to speak about what she feels even though it sounds silly for you. And if there's something wrong you did, let her finish her point of view before you start to defend yourself, and most importantly, learn how to defend yourself; use simple language to show her your point of view and remember that sometimes it is better to let her win the argument than yelling for 2 hours to get her to understand your point of view.
7. Be honest:
Honesty -for me- is the cornerstone for any relationship; Never think that lying can solve anything and know that if you were honest with her, she will appreciate that and do the same. Learn to build your relationship on trust; Believe me, it would be way better if you told her that you smoked a couple of cigarettes rather than she catches smoking for example.
And just because you lied a couple of times and got away with it doesn't mean that lying is the easy way out, maybe she knew you were lying but she didn't want to start a fight? She really will have difficulty believing you afterwards.
8. Don't cheat on her:
Cheating does not just come suddenly; The urge to cheat grows with time starting from simple white lies about flirting conversations with a colleague and working-late excuses until you realize that there's a distance between you and your woman.
You are a human after all and it's natural to find someone else attractive on the street or at work, But that doesn't mean that there should be flirting conversation with anyone; If someone started a flirting conversation with you, Tell your partner about it!, She may feel jealous for few seconds but she would understand that the only reason that you are telling her this is because you are truthful to her and that you did put an end to those conversations for the sake of your relationship.
In the end, always respect and admire who your partner is and do your best to make her happy. And remember that your happiness depends on your partner's happiness, As they say : 'A happy man marries the woman he loves, A happier man loves the woman he marries'.
1. Love her:
Well, the first thing you need to make sure of is your genuine love towards her. And it is not a coincidence that love came first, without the purity of your love for this particular woman everything else won't work. Women are sensitive creatures that should be reminded of things that guys consider small on a daily basis; I mean you have to remind her every once and a while of how much you love her and why did you choose her over anyone else, these words are simple yet effective. As Pamela Davis said: 'Every woman deserves a man who loves and respects her and every man deserves a woman who appreciate his efforts'.
Start making small changes towards her; Hold her hand while walking into a restaurant, express to her that you need her and value her or surprise her from time-to-time with a card or flowers or a little gift; These are just few examples on how easy it is to make your partner happy.
2. Understand the nature of women:
''Men are from Mars and women are from Venus''; This shows just how different the two genders are. Women are extremely complex and complicated creatures where Men are a simple-minded creature; The way women think for example is interesting; Women tend to think in a collective or global method therefore women are prone to become overwhelmed with complexities that exist or may exist, while men tend to focus on one task at a time.
But most importantly, Women have three physiological functions that are completely absent in Men; Menstruation, Pregnancy and Lactation. Each of these mechanisms influence behavior and feelings significantly; Try to understand these mechanisms and be extra nice when your partner is going through either one of them; Listen to what she says and try to give her some rest while you handle her duties.
3. Make her laugh:
Ask any women what she looks for in a man and ''someone who can make me laugh until my ribs hurt'' is usually one of the first things they say. A lot of guys can be good looking, charming, interesting or intelligent but not everyone has the sense of humor; And I know you're not the funniest guy in the world but that does not mean you cannot make her laugh; You don't have to use the filthiest joke on the planet or racist jokes, try to be a little awkward, share a funny family tale and be original; don't just memorize a line from Friends or a famous comedian. But my absolute favorite method is to make her laugh at yourself; If you spilled some coke on yourself during the movie just laugh it off, women love guys who don't take everything seriously. In the end, everyone loves to laugh :-).
4. Be patient:
Women can be difficult to handle sometimes, Women are greatly affected by hormone fluctuations from PMS to Menopause; And those changes can affect her mood, her weight, her food cravings or even her desire for sexual intercourse; Medically speaking, Women may undergo cramps, diarrhea, anxiety, depression or headaches before menstruation and all of those are difficult to tolerate. Therefore, patience is an extremely important feature in Men, whether your partner is angry at you or refusing sexual activities, understand that she is under the influence of hormones that are giving her a really awful time; Try to support her instead of yelling at her and think of every single word you say before saying it.
Be patient when she is late, don't make her feel guilty especially if the conversation started with 'Sorry' and let her win the argument; One day the tables could be turned and she might let you win the argument.
5. Make her feel special:
You don't have to take her to the fanciest restaurant in town or buy her the most expensive ring in the world to make your lady feel special; Compliment her in an appropriate way; Don't just tell her ''you're hot'', try to be original, say something like ''When I look at you, I know what it's like to feel comfortable and safe around someone''.
Show her that you care; Leave a random note saying ''I love how beautiful you look today'' in her car or kiss her on the cheeks out of nowhere, ask her a lot of questions to show your interest in her; Ask about her hobbies, favorite movies..etc.
Make a step forward; Put your jacket on her shoulders when it's cold, make her laugh when she is feeling down instead of standing there saying 'I'm sorry', Find out what's her favorite flower is and bring her a bouquet in your way home, take a lot of pictures together, Respect her and get to know her friends and don't be embarrassed to hold her hand in public.
6. Communicate:
There's no shame in asking your partner about what she thinks of getting a new car for example; Always ask about her point of view before making a decision even though it wasn't her area of expertise. You are sending her a message that you really care about what she thinks and appreciate her opinion in your decisions.
Communication matters more than you think; She might be hiding something but she won't tell because you simply don't ask about what's wrong. Allow her space to speak about what she feels even though it sounds silly for you. And if there's something wrong you did, let her finish her point of view before you start to defend yourself, and most importantly, learn how to defend yourself; use simple language to show her your point of view and remember that sometimes it is better to let her win the argument than yelling for 2 hours to get her to understand your point of view.
7. Be honest:
Honesty -for me- is the cornerstone for any relationship; Never think that lying can solve anything and know that if you were honest with her, she will appreciate that and do the same. Learn to build your relationship on trust; Believe me, it would be way better if you told her that you smoked a couple of cigarettes rather than she catches smoking for example.
And just because you lied a couple of times and got away with it doesn't mean that lying is the easy way out, maybe she knew you were lying but she didn't want to start a fight? She really will have difficulty believing you afterwards.
8. Don't cheat on her:
Cheating does not just come suddenly; The urge to cheat grows with time starting from simple white lies about flirting conversations with a colleague and working-late excuses until you realize that there's a distance between you and your woman.
You are a human after all and it's natural to find someone else attractive on the street or at work, But that doesn't mean that there should be flirting conversation with anyone; If someone started a flirting conversation with you, Tell your partner about it!, She may feel jealous for few seconds but she would understand that the only reason that you are telling her this is because you are truthful to her and that you did put an end to those conversations for the sake of your relationship.
In the end, always respect and admire who your partner is and do your best to make her happy. And remember that your happiness depends on your partner's happiness, As they say : 'A happy man marries the woman he loves, A happier man loves the woman he marries'.
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